My Dearest,
I want to start by saying how deeply sorry I am for all the pain and hurt you've experienced at the hands of those who were supposed to love and cherish you. From the very first man in your life to the ones who came after, each one should have treated you with the utmost respect, care, and love. But far too often, they failed to see the beautiful, radiant soul that you are, and for that, I apologize.
I apologize for the wounds inflicted upon you by the masculine figures in your life, starting with your father. He should have been your first example of love and protection, but instead, he may have left you feeling abandoned, unworthy, and unlovable. I'm sorry for the pain of not receiving the love and validation you deserved from him.
I apologize for the boy who took advantage of your innocence and treated you as nothing more than a body. You deserved to be seen and cherished for the incredible person you are, not reduced to a mere object of desire. Your worth goes far beyond your physicality, and I'm sorry for any moment you felt otherwise.
I apologize for the men who mistreated you, who made you feel disposable and unworthy of their love and affection. You are not disposable, my dear—you are invaluable, deserving of the deepest, most profound love imaginable. No one should ever make you feel like you're less than deserving of love and respect.
I apologize for the men who tried to change you, who made you feel like you needed to be someone else in order to be worthy of their love. You are perfect exactly as you are, with all your complexities, sensitivities, and layers. You are a masterpiece, and anyone who can't see that doesn't deserve to have you in their life.
I apologize for the men who couldn't handle your depth, your sensitivity, your unpredictability. You are not too much to love, my dear—you are just right. Your depth is a gift, your sensitivity is a strength, and your unpredictability is what makes you beautifully human.
But above all, I want to remind you of your worth. You are worthy of love, respect, and adoration just as you are. The love you've been seeking all this time is not outside of you—it's within you. It's the love you give yourself, the love that radiates from your being, the love that knows no bounds.
And now that you've put all your pieces back together, I want you to know that the only man worthy of you is one who knows how to love deeply, wholly, transparently, and honestly. A man who sees you for who you truly are and cherishes every part of you. A man who recognizes your worth and treats you with the love and respect you deserve.
You are deserving of a love that lifts you up, supports you, and celebrates you for exactly who you are. Never settle for anything less, my dear, because you are worth far more than you could ever imagine.
With all my love and admiration,
Forgiveness