Sex is one of the most powerful forces in existence. It is more than just pleasure, it is creation, energy exchange, and a gateway to something far greater than ourselves. Yet, in a world that glorifies casual encounters and meaningless intimacy, many of us have forgotten what sex truly is.
As women, we hold the power of creation within us. Our womb is a portal where life is formed, where energy is absorbed, and where the deepest mysteries of existence reside. It is a direct connection to something divine, something beyond words. And yet, how often do we allow men who are undeserving, unworthy, and disconnected from their own depth to enter our sacred space?
Your Womb Is Not a Playground—It Is a Temple
Your body is not meant to be a proving ground for a man’s fleeting desires. It is a temple, and not every man should be allowed past the gates. Every time you have sex, you are absorbing the energy of the other person; his fears, his wounds, his beliefs, his karma. If he is reckless with his own body, if he is disconnected from his spirit, if he is not living in alignment with truth, then what exactly is he depositing into you?
Think about this: Would you drink from a cup that has been passed around and sipped by dozens of strangers? Would you allow someone with dirty hands to handle your most precious possessions? Then why allow a man who lacks self-awareness, discipline, or integrity to enter your womb space?
This is not about purity, it is about protection.
Sex Is a Spiritual Transaction, Not Just a Physical One
Sex is an alchemical act. It is erotic, tantric, and mystical. It has the power to elevate us, to bring us to states of ecstasy where we touch the infinite. But it also has the power to drain us, to deplete our life force, to tether us to people who were never meant to have access to us.
This is why discernment is everything.
Before opening yourself to a man, ask yourself:
- Does he truly see me, or am I just a conquest?
- Do his words and actions align, or does he say one thing and do another?
- Is he a man of integrity, or does he move through life recklessly?
- Does he live with purpose, or does he drift from woman to woman, absorbing but never creating?
- What does he worship? His ego? His lust? His distractions? Or something greater?
Because when you have sex, you are not just taking a man into your body, you are taking in his essence, his emotional baggage, his mindset, his spiritual energy.
Men Are Not Exempt—The Energy They Absorb Matters Too
This is not just about women. Men who recklessly spread their seed, who sleep with countless women without intention, are depleting themselves as well. They carry fragments of every woman they have ever been with. They become scattered, unfocused, energetically unclean. A man who lacks sexual discipline is a man who lacks power.
Real masculinity is not about how many women he can conquer, it is about how deeply he can protect and honor the sacred feminine. A man who understands the sacredness of sex does not waste his energy. He does not collect bodies. He cultivates presence. He chooses wisely.
The Power of Celibacy and Discernment
Abstinence and celibacy are not about repression, they are about reclamation. When you choose to protect your body, you are choosing to preserve your energy, to sharpen your discernment, to elevate your standards.
Celibacy is a time of purification, of rewiring your connection to your own body and spirit. It is a time to clear out the remnants of past lovers, to cut energetic ties, to reclaim every piece of yourself that was left in the hands of those who never deserved it.
And when you do choose to open yourself again, you will do so with intention. With wisdom. With the deep knowing that sex is a force that brings you closer to the divine when shared with the right person.
Sacred Sex Is the Gateway to the Divine
Sex, when approached with reverence, is not just an act, it is a ritual. It is a merging of souls, a communion with the infinite. It is an ascension, a surrender, a moment where time dissolves and all that remains is presence.
This is the kind of sex we should be having. Not the kind that leaves us feeling empty, used, or fragmented. But the kind that awakens something ancient within us. The kind that elevates. The kind that reminds us that we are gods and goddesses in human form.
So, protect your temple. Choose your lovers wisely. Let no man enter you unless he is worthy of the sacred space you hold. Because your body is divine, and not every man deserves to touch divinity.