For the woman who has crowned herself in love before giving her heart away. Bride to the unknown.
There’s something sacred about the brides who choose Hera Jewels.
They’re not just selecting a piece of jewelry, they’re crowning a version of themselves.
A woman who has risen from heartbreak, reclaimed her voice, and is now walking toward love with intention, sovereignty, and soul.
Over the years, I’ve witnessed how deeply brides resonate with my pieces.
They often tell me they feel seen, like my designs were made for the woman they’re becoming.
This vow is for them.
For every woman walking the path of Hera,
the goddess, the queen, the one who remembers her worth. This is for you. Feel free to use this Vow on your special day with your beloved, use it as inspiration, manifestation, a starting point, or as a reminder of the sacred vow you’ll always keep close to your heart. Before we meet the man who will stand beside us, there is a deeper vow ; a vow to God. For it is God who is the first Bridegroom, the one whose love sets the tone for every love we will ever know. When we are rooted in that divine love, any offering of love that follows can only reflect its truth and wholeness. You are always whole, you are always a queen with or without a ring on your finger.
xo,
Saddaf
I stand before you today
not as half of a whole,
but as a whole woman
crowned in the wisdom of every heartbreak I’ve survived,
every part of me I’ve reclaimed,
and every storm I’ve alchemized into grace.
I do not come to you seeking rescue,
nor do I ask you to complete me.
I come to you because I choose you
freely, fiercely, and fully.
I vow to love you with the eyes of truth,
to honor the man you are and the man you are still becoming.
To witness you not only in your strength,
but in your softness.
Not only in your victories,
but in your vulnerable moments too.
Because love isn’t something I do to you
it’s something I become beside you.
I vow to keep my heart open,
even when the ego wants to close it.
To speak not to win, but to connect.
To listen, not to respond,
but to understand.
I vow to keep our union sacred
not as a performance,
but as a practice.
Not as a possession,
but as a prayer.
I promise to walk beside you
not ahead, not behind
but as your equal,
your mirror,
your muse,
your match.
And if ever life should test us,
I will remember this vow:
That I was whole before you,
and I am still choosing you,
from a place of wholeness,
over and over again.